Modesty: The Godly Woman’s Hair (Part 2)

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(This post is NOT for all. It is specific to the SAVED – meaning a female who has had transformation of heart by the word of God. I pray this message moves you toward the next level in your walk with the Lord. I pray that the Lord will minister to your heart through this post and grant you the gift of total SANCTIFICATION (being set apart unto the Lord) to live a HOLY life to the Lord from within AND without in Jesus’ name.)

(Published by: The Deeper Christian Life Ministry, P.O.Box 3816-00200  Nairobi. Tel 020-778 133, Opposite City Stadium, Behind Shell Petrol Station, Shaurimoyo. Quotations are from King James Version except otherwise stated.)

(Understanding the apostolic teaching on plaiting the hair)
                                                       1 Peter 3:3, 4; 1Timothy 2:8-10
‘Don’t be concerned about the outward beauty that depends on jewelry or beautiful clothes or hair arrangement. Be beautiful inside, in your hearts, with the lasting charm of a quiet and gentle spirit which is so precious to God.’  (1 Peter 3:3, 4 Living Bible‘And the women should be the same way, quiet and sensible in manner and clothing. Christian women should be noticed for being kind and good, not for the way they fix their hair or because of their jewels or fancy clothes.’ (1Timothy 2:8-10, Living Bible)
The focus of these Bible passages is good conduct void of external adornments. The Roman women were fond of crisping and curling their hairs in the most variegated, complex and expensive way. Likewise the Grecian and Asiatic women are very extravagant in attire and hairdo. The apostle therefore warned Christian women not to imitate or copy them. When women spend much time, money and attention on decorating themselves, it is a painful proof they lack commitment to uplift what is precious in the sight of God namely – character. All the ornaments on the body and head of the most illustrious female are in the sight of God of no worth but a meek, quiet, kind and compassionate heart are invaluable in the sight of God because that is a reflection of His nature and an evidence of true godliness. Moreover, this inner beauty (character – which produces good works) will survive the ruin of the body and external attire in time and in eternity. It will also attract reward from God. (1 Peter 3:4, 5; Proverbs 31:10-31; Ruth 2:12)

The externality of excessive hairdo which the apostle referred to as plating the hair is the process or result of coating the hair either with a thin layer of metal – silver or gold; or spraying with divers color which Jesus indirectly disapproved. (Matthew5:36Externality may be a means of attracting men or may recommend the female folks to men but not to God. Attaching ornaments such as gold, silver, pearls, beads etc to your hair to make it glister; attaching artificial hair, threads, wools etc to make your hairs look longer or fuller than how God made it; applying chemicals that change the natural color and texture of your hair like those who bleach their skin in pursuit of beauty only reveal the measure of your interest in vainglory. Painting your face, lips, eyes brow or any other part of your body and wearing artificial ornaments is at best an expression of contempt to the competence of your Maker

The Bible says, ‘Let us not be desirous of vainglory, provoking one another, envying one another.’ (Galatians 5:26) ‘Let nothing be done through strive or vainglory: but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.’ (Philippians 2:3) ‘Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.’ (Proverbs 31:30) ‘Vanity of vanities, saith the Preacher, vanity of vanities; all is vanity.’ (Ecclesiastes 1:2; 12:8) Godly women should pursue things of eternal value, ‘which in the sight of God is of great price’ (1 Peter 3:4) rather than transient earthly glory.

These artificialities further show who and what you truly love in your heart, whether God or the world. The Bible says, “Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.” (1 John 2:15) What is in your heart – the love of God or of the world? As you decorate your daughter with artificialities, what are you training her to become – a vain or virtuous woman? These are evidences that you love the world and not the LORD.“For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but of the world. And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he/she that doeth the will of God abideth for ever.” (1 John 2:16, 17) Is it your desire to abide in God’s kingdom forever or pass into judgment of eternal perdition?

As a woman, whose attention are you seeking, who do you intend to please?(Romans 7:22; Psalm 1:2, 3) Do you want to please God, yourself or the world?It is written, ‘Am I now trying to win the approval of men, or of God? Or am I trying to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ,’ (Galatians 1:10 NIV) ‘So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.’ (Romans 8:8) The counsel of God to believers is: ‘…we beseech/beg you, brethren, and exhort you by the Lord Jesus, that as ye have received of us how ye ought to walk and to please God, so ye would abound more and more.’ (1 Thessalonians 4:1)

What a wonderful and insightful interpretation of God’s Word! May we women professing godliness not be fond of using “artificialities” to beautify our external but may we abide by the Bible’s standard of beauty in all circumstances in Jesus’ name.

Be abundantly blessed!
-Charity